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THE LIFE OF SIMPLY DAPH

Child of God, Wife, Mother, Daughter, Pastor, Artist, Writer

Prayer Is the Prescription 

What do you do when life becomes overwhelming
How do you keep moving when everything around you feels heavy
How do you push past the thoughts, emotions, and circumstances that try to weigh you down

When pressure closes in, you have a choice. You can numb the pain with temporary comforts, distractions, or unhealthy coping mechanisms. Or you can run to the One who actually knows you, sees you, understands you, and holds the real remedy for your soul.

Life has a way of making us feel confused, stuck, even hopeless…

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God’s Love Defined  

When you hear the word love, what comes to mind?

Is it a warm feeling toward someone you admire? A flutter in your stomach at the sound of a person’s name? Is it romantic words exchanged to gain affection, or giving gifts to receive a desired response?

Those are expressions of love, but they are not the full picture.

So what is love really?

God’s Love Toward Us

John 3:16 KJV

For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting…

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Seasons and the Silent Question: How Much Longer 

We all carry dreams in our hearts. Goals we hope to reach. Timelines we quietly build. Expectations of what life should look like by now. Maybe it is owning a home, being married, having children, advancing in your calling, building your ministry, or reaching a certain level of influence or stability. And when those things do not happen in the time we imagined, frustration settles in. Discouragement creeps in. Sometimes our faith even starts to feel fragile.

What we often forget is this. Everything unfolds…

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What Growing Up in Church Didn’t Teach Me 

I grew up in a home where godliness was not only taught but lived. In all my years as a child, I cannot recall a single moment where I saw my parents sin openly. There was no profanity in our home. There was no drinking, no fighting, no confusion. My parents were not perfect, but they were consistent. They loved God sincerely and lived out their faith with integrity.

But as for me and my five siblings, we cannot exactly say the same.

Even with parents who modeled holiness before us, I learned early that…

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The Elephant in the Room and the Relationships It Disrupts 

Imagine walking into a room expecting warmth, connection, and familiar faces. You settle in, conversations start flowing, and the atmosphere feels light. Suddenly, in walks an elephant. Not a normal one either. This one is covered in bright polka dots, has a blue tail, green ears, and jagged teeth. Before you can even gather your thoughts, you notice everyone has shifted their attention. Not to address the elephant, but to work around it.

People are still engaging with one another, but now they are speaking…

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The Quiet Danger of Self Deception and the Path Back to Spiritual Health 

I am forty five today, but looking back over my life, I can truly say I grew up in a home marked by godliness. In the thirty eight years before this moment, I cannot recall a single time where I witnessed my parents sin in front of us. There was no profanity in our home. No drinking. No fussing. No fighting. Now for me and my five siblings, we cannot share that same testimony. But for our parents, righteousness was the atmosphere we breathed.

Even with their example, we understood we could not depend on…

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Get to know Simply Daph 

Hi good people,

My name is Daphine Bush, and I am a Louisiana girl at heart, born and raised in the small but vibrant city of Lake Charles. Even as a child, I carried a quiet dream of living somewhere larger, faster, and full of possibility. I did not know how or when it would happen, but I always believed God would plant me in a place that matched the vision in my heart.

That place became Houston. I visited the city for the very first time when my husband and I got engaged, and the moment I arrived, it…

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God Steps Into What We Cannot Control 

Hi good people,

Today I found myself reflecting on the goodness of God throughout my life. Memory has a way of reminding us of the beauty that often springs forth from seasons that felt unbearable at the time. I know all of us can recall moments when circumstances spun beyond our control, moments that shook us, stretched us, and brought us to our knees.

Even as believers, we will face sudden disruptions that feel like the ground beneath us is shifting. One of the most unforgettable seasons of my life happened…

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When Joy Gets Tested on a Wednesday Morning 

It was Tuesday night, and I made a promise to myself. I set my alarm for 5:30 in the morning so I could meet with God in prayer. For those who know me, waking up that early is a challenge. I am not a morning person at all. My prayer time usually happens around midday or in the evening. But for some reason, I felt led to try something different.

Wednesday morning arrived, and the blaring alarm on my phone reminded me of my promise. My body protested. My bed felt warm. Everything in me wanted to stay…

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Worship is Our Lifeline 

It was Sunday, my favorite day of the week.

A day of gathering, singing, worshiping, and pouring my heart out before God.

A day that normally felt familiar, joyful, and full of purpose.

But this Sunday was different.

The sky looked different.

Church felt different.

I felt different.

Three days earlier, my mother passed away at the age of forty nine.

No warning.

No preparation.

No time to brace myself.

Just days before, we had talked.

A month before, we spent time together at a women’s retreat.

Nothing hinted that she…

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